At a trade show, the exhibiting company expects to
showcase its best – products, services and staff. But what
happens when the exhibit was great, the products and
services super – and the response was not up to
expectations?
One very real reason is Management was haphazard in
selection of its staff – the subtle and no-so-subtle behaviors
of its most visible representatives were offensive.
The staff members were flawed by one or more of the seven
deadly sins of exhibiting staff. Are you responsible for
selecting these people – or worse, are you one of those
selected?
PRIDE is excessive belief in your own abilities – also known
as vanity.
AT A SHOW – You are the peacock, strutting around. You are
the know-it-all, the one who interrupts conversations, talks
over the demo and gives unsolicited opinions. You want
more than your share of the limelight. Whether you are an
expert or not, you believe yourself to be one – even when
your pronouncements are erroneous.
ENVY is your desire for others’ traits, status, abilities, or
situation.
AT A SHOW – You are the gossip-monger, the one who
makes snippy comments, drops pseudo-truths about
competitors and passes along company secrets. When you
think you can get away with it, you are the back-stabber, liar
and imitator. You think that by denigrating others, you raise
your own stake and others will choose you over your implied
competitors.
GLUTTONY is your inordinate desire to consume more than
you require.
AT A SHOW – You are an addict, whether your choice is
alcohol, drugs, food or speed. You are obsessive about
fulfilling these needs, often sloughing off show duties, often
showing up with a hangover, glassy eyes or a thick tongue.
You believe in crashing parties, maximum use of expense
accounts and you often go off alone when official
entertaining has ended. You may need to be bailed out of
jail.
LUST is your inordinate craving for pleasures of the body.
AT A SHOW – You may think it stays in Vegas or on the road
or as a secret. It does not. Whether it is in person or online,
today your privacy can be compromised in so many ways.
Your computer and credit cards can be hacked or stolen.
You can be followed, mugged, blackmailed, get a disease
or snapped by a cell phone. Ultimately, you are selfish by
ignoring the well being of your family and your company’s
reputation.
ANGER is manifested when you opt for fury – also known as
wrath.
AT A SHOW – You are quick to flare up, often for no reason.
You snipe at wait-staff when lunch is not perfect, stiff the
bellman, curse the union labor and revel in making a scene.
You feel justified to yell at anyone you consider beneath you,
including your own staff. You believe fear is an acceptable
trait and makes you a commanding presence. Instead, you
are an embarrassment.
GREED is your desire for material wealth or gain – also
called avarice or covetousness.
AT A SHOW – You are hyper-competitive. You want the
money, the toys and king-of-the-hill feeling. You are not
above cutting side deals, suggesting bribes, stealing
clients, messing with leads, indulging in gossip or passing
along secrets when you think it gives you an advantage. You
are sneaky and at the low end of the ethics scale.
SLOTH is when you avoid physical work – also called being
lazy or procrastinating.
AT A SHOW – You are never around when work needs to be
done. You skipped the pre-show meeting. You lost the
e-mail, missed the client appointment, couldn’t find the right
room. You misplaced the leads or the packing slips,
ignored the show contracts and forgot to check in at the
office. Your excuses sound rational but after awhile, nobody
believes you. They will leave you alone and after awhile, you
will be alone on the street.
What does this mean? People expect good things to
happen. They remember more vividly those behaviors and
attitudes that make them uncomfortable.
At a trade show, the staff is the social and ethical
embodiment of a company. Individual flaws and faults may
be magnified because of the briefness of interaction. The
incidents will be remembered by the company name, not
the individual. And folks may ask – Why should I do
business with a company that hires a jerk like that?
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Julia O’Connor – Speaker, Author, Consultant – writes Julia is an expert in the psychology of the trade show Contact her at 804-355-7800 or check the site |
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